Children of the late Queen Florence
T.J.T Princewill, wife of the late Amanyanabo of Kalabari Kingdom in Rivers
State, King Prof. T.J.T Princewill, have described her as a great mother who
made a huge impact in the lives of many people, including those she didn't
know.
According to a press statement
signed and circulated to news platforms by Prince Tonye Princewill on behalf of
the late Queen’s children, noted that the week-long activities lined up in
honour of the late Queen, who bore the titled; Se-Ingibo, meaning "Mother
of Kalabari Kingdom", came to a close on Sunday with an
outing/thanksgiving service at Saint Alban's Anglican Church, Obuama in Degema
Local Government Area of the state.
The outing/thanksgiving service was
preceded by a night of culture and musical display, which was held in honour of
the late Queen on Saturday night at the Obuama Town Square.
Speaking to newsmen shortly after
the service on Sunday, son of the deceased, Prince Tonye T.J.T Princewill said
the impact of her legacies was evident in the outpouring of love and support
during her burial activities.
Princewill, who is also the head of
Queen Elebabene / Da Ogo Group of Houses in Buguma, stated that
the late
Queen’s first quality was in the joy she brought to the life of his late
father, King Princewill.
"Mummysco as I call her is a
woman whose life was about making an impact. She made a huge impact anywhere
she went to and she touched so many peoples' lives.
"My biological mother passed away
in 2000 but my father remarried two years after that. I was one of her first
advocates in the family because I just saw the kind of joy she gave to him and
the kind of peace that came from it.
"Anyone who knows my father
knows that anything that is important to him is important to me. But, I also
got to love her in my own way independent of my father because of the impact
she had in my life. We talked a lot at length, we discussed everything and I
became very close to her and she got close to me and my family.
"So, I am not surprised when I
saw that outpouring of love. People didn't know that she is not my biological
mother because that is the way we related.
"The outpouring of love and
support is legendary. People did things here for nothing, people did things for
next to nothing, people contributed time, effort, all that. It was nothing
short of mind-blowing.
"So, I am not shocked by that
outpouring of love. Without them this wouldn’t have been possible. We didn't
get a lot of support from outsiders and we didn’t ask. We just decided to put
our heads down and dig deep. We lost a huge icon in our family and there is no
replacement.
"On the future of her legacy
and if there will be a foundation in her name, we shall see. But one thing we
must all have noticed in this burial is that we have not done things without
thought. Our mother has barely been in the ground. So shortly, the family will
sit down to discuss what lasting legacies we want to sustain.
"She has done more than enough
to leave a legacy. So much so that even if we don't do anything beyond now, her
legacies will remain," he said.
Also speaking to journalists, her
second son and head of the Da Beal Group of Houses, Obuama, Alabo
Daso John
Beal Odibo Tom-Big Harry, said the late Queen was a gift to the community as
she trained even those who were not her children.
Describing their late mother as the
first female Community Development Committee (CDC) Chairman in the history of the
community, Tom-Big Harry, said she used her position to attract a lot of
projects to Obuama community.
"As I have been saying
everywhere I go for anybody that cares to listen. Our mother was a mother to
all. Naturally, she was a mother to everybody and God now ordained it for her
to become the wife of the King of Kalabari Kingdom, which automatically made
her to become the Se-Ingibo. Se-Ingibo means 'mother of the Kalabari
nation'.
"From the beginning, it was not
easy for her when she was growing up. When going to school was difficult for
some people, she struggled on her own, went to Teachers' Training College. From
there she went to University of Hull, where she got her first degree.
"She came back to Nigeria, got
her masters on her own while she was also training my younger ones. She was
also training people from the community, even people that she did not
know.
"So, when she became the wife
of the Amanyanabo, it became a different thing entirely. For the legacies she
left behind, they are very many. In this community for instance, she was first
female CDC chairman.
"She was the first person that
brought on meaningful projects to this community. When Dr. Peter Odili
was
governor, she brought in a big generator for electricity in the community. The
road network you see in this community today were masterminded by her when she
was the CDC chairman," he said.
On his part, the first son of the
late Queen, Opakriba Ezekiel Tom-Big Harry reiterated many of the things his younger
brothers had said, but also added that their late mother had no favourite child
as she loved all her children.
He said: "First, I don't know
where to start from. The main message that I have is that she was a mother to
all. She loved all of us her children. She had no favourite child that she
loved the most." We all felt loved and that in itself was a skill
considering how many we were.
"While we are all here today to
give thanks to God for a successful burial, we want to give thanks to all who
contributed to make this a success. Our mother would be so happy. This was a
display of Kalabari Unity. The coming together of several into one just to
celebrate their Queen" Prince Tonye finally declared.