Umuodagu Ntu Youths Honours Mrs Henrietta Eze Chukwuemeka

Umuodagu Ntu Youths Honours Mrs Henrietta Eze Chukwuemeka

The Youth of St. Pauls Catholic Parish Umuodagu Ntu in Ngor/Okpala Local Government Area of Imo state has honoured Mrs Henrietta Eze Chukwuemeka, the wife of the defunct New PDP National Publicity Secretary, Chief Eze Chukwuemeka Eze.

Conferring the “CYON Role Model” honour award on her on 24 August, 2014 which marked the end of the youth week, the Parish Priest, Rev. Father Raymon Onuoha said the award was based on her exemplary life.

Receiving the award, Mrs Henrietta Chukwuemeka thanked the Parish Priest, the youth week Chairman, Ebere Nwaordu, members of the church and all that participated in organizing the youth week for the honour done to her.

While observing that their dress code portray that of prospective mothers, Mrs Henrietta enjoined the youths not to defile themselves before they get married. ‘I have seen you people dressing, your dressing says a lot – you want to be mothers. Praise God. You want to be mothers, but if not for that, you would have appeared in youths outfits, smart and display the ego in youths. Your desire, desperation is so high. I can see it, I can feel it. You want to be mothers. Don’t defile yourself, till the day God gives you your own husband’ she advised.

Mrs Chukwuemeka who was accompanied by

her husband to the award conferment ceremony paid glowing praise to Chief Eze Chukwuemeka Eze as she described him as a man who has “kept the marriage bed undefiled”, an exceptional man and supportive.

Chief Eze Chukwuemeka Eze in conjunction with his wife, while making cash donation of twenty thousand naira, one dozen of jersey, footballs and stockings to Ebere Nwaordu, the youth week Chairman thanked God for blinding the eyes of some men which made it possible for him to marry the virtuous woman of his life, adding that if there is reincarnation he would marry her again.

He revealed that it was sports that brought them together while they were still undergraduates in University of Calabar.

The youth week which was initially preceded by workshop on how to make cake, meat pie, chin chin, yoghurt, and seminar on the dangers of premarital sex presented by Mrs Henrietta Chukwuemeka Eze, climaxed on Sunday, 24 August, 2014 with the conferment of various awards on deserving recipients, breaking of cake and decoration of Liza Izuwa and Emeka Ukwuoma as CYON Princess and Prince respectively.

‘Dangers of Pre-Marital Sex’

‘Dangers of Pre-Marital Sex’

Being a Seminar Presented by Mrs Ada Eze to the St. Pauls Catholic Parish Umuodagu Ntu Youths during Their  Youth Week 18^th-23^rd  August 2014

Pre-marital sex is referred to as sexual relation between two or more people prior to marriage. The meaning has shifted to all sexual relations a person had before a legal marriage.

Alternative terms for pre-marital sex include:

- Non-Marital sex.

- Young/Adolescent sex.

- Young-Adult sex.

Pre-marital sex can take the form of; - lesbianism, homosexuality, incest, masturbation, bestiality among others.

Today illicit sex is associated with millions of youths who are unaware of the dangers of pre-marital sex. Instead of youths to worship God with their precious time, they waste their time committing sin and destroying their future.

Ecclesiastes 12: 4 – “Remember now thy creator in days of thy youth while the evil days come not, nor the days draw nigh when thou shall say I have no pleasure in them”.

How/Why People Get Involved in Pre-Marital Sex

People find themselves in areas where lifestyle of boarder on committing sin. Places like the ghetto/slums or areas where there are no strict moral values, most of the time form part of the environment where youths learn evil ways fast. Therefore, things like smoking, rape, stealing pickpocketing, pre-marital sex, having girlfriends are some of the ridiculous practices seen in this kind of places.

Pre-marital sex also thrives in mixed schools. Having a lot of girls clustering around, send evil messages with peer groups encouraging one to have sex with as many girls as possible with the assurance that there will be no harm.

1Corinthians 16:9 “For a great door and effectual is opened unto me and there are many adversaries” –KJV.

Another reason young people indulge in pre-marital sex is their great curiosity to explore what sexual activity is all about. They do this without considering the damaging consequences. Here it may take the form of casual sex with one of the partners seeking to experience sex.

Cohabitation breeds sexual immorality. This has to do with couples living together in a long term relationship without marriage. Examples of people that fall into this category are betrothed couples who engage in sexual activity before the anticipated marriage.

Studies reveal that people who cohabit find it difficult to marry for obvious reasons. If that is the case, the question is why young people still cohabit?

It must be stated here also that the consequences of cohabitation is life-threatening and therefore should be avoided.

Consequences of Premarital Sex

Satan has caused much damage to the youths making them to commit fornication. Fornication is pre-marital sex. Damage which could not be repaired has been inflicted on young promising persons and the have to live with it for the rest of their lives.

God knows that there are dangers in pre-marital sex that is why He wants us to flee from youthful lust 2Timoty 2:22 “Flee youthful lusts but follow righteousness, faith, charity, and peace with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart”.

Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly, it can create boundless energy, when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is the gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure to help in creating deep companionship with one’s spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you.

- Sexual activity for young people arrests their psychological, social and academic development. Studies show that when young people engage in pre-marital sex, their academic performance declines and their social relationships with family and friends deteriorate. This is because adolescents are too immature to deal with the explosive sex drive and it tends to dominate their lives.

- Majority of women cannot enjoy sex outside the bonds of Marriage. Pre-marital sex usually takes place sneaking around in hidden places, dealing with the fear of being caught, the fear of pregnancy and feelings of guilt. All these worrisome factors undermine pleasure in premarital sex most especially in women.

- Virginity is to be given to the most important person in your life – the person you committed to stay forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to your spouse. Once you lose it nothing in the world can bring it back.

Spiritual Effects of Pre-marital Sex

- It is a sin - 1Thessalonica 4:3 (for this is the will of God even your sanctification that you should abstain from fornication)

- 1Cor. 6:9 – No fornicator will enter into the kingdom of God.

- Colossians 3:5-6 – Fornicators attract the anger of God against themselves. It is a dangerous thing to fall into the hands of God.

Deuteronomy 22:13-21 – Penalty of fornication is death.

Matthew 5:32 – The sin of fornication is the only ground on which a man should divorce his married wife. Fornication is a very terrible sin as it affects all the body.

- Fornication brings more sin.

Most pre-marital sex ends up in pregnancy, sickness abandonment or sale of babies. The rate of abortion has increased because of increase in pre-marital sex. Involving in pre-marital sex is a sin of its own but committing abortion is murder. Almost all today’s youth must have committed murder before reaching age 25. Some of them abandon their babies in dustbins, gutters and other public places which is an increase to their original sin of fornication. Some secretly sale their babies to ready buyers who use such babies for rituals, or resale them to wealthy couples who could not bear their own children.

- It creates an ungodly soul tie

A soul tie is an agreement one enters with another that creates a special bond between two people. Soul ties are common and exist everywhere – husband and wife, parent and children, teacher and student, pastors and church members, employer and employees. Sex is not just a causal fun as most people think and take it to be. It is much more than that, it involves blood. The Bible says “Life is in the blood” Lev.17:14.

When you have sex with a person you have given a part of your life to that person and in return the person has given you a part of his own life in the spirit realm. In the spirit realm, two of you have become one. You start to share things in common. That is why disease, sickness, demons and many things and many things pass through during sexual intercourse. In addition, you have just created “a soul tie” between you and the person involved. Since God does not permit pre-marital sex, it becomes an “ungodly tie” in the sight of God. That is why some girls find a special liking or memory on the day of dis-virginity, the blood that flows out that day becomes the blood of the covenant or agreement. Genesis 34 Shechem the prince of the land of Hivite committed fornication with Dinah the daughter of Jacob. The soul of Shechem cleaves unto Dinah. First it was lust, and then came love, yet it was ungodly

- It fragmentize your soul

Since sexual intercourse creates soul ties, each person you have sex with you have given part of your heart or soul in the spiritual realm. That is why people who were promiscuous before settling down for marriage find it difficult settling down at all because their soul has been divided; always thinking of their relationships with their previous partners thus making it impossible for them to settle down for marriage. If a person has slept with a thousand persons in his life, his love, heart and several other things has been shared with these thousand persons. A close look at the society shows that wayward people find it difficult to have a fulfilled marriage life because they have shared their life with several people.

Most promiscuous people are involved in extramarital sex. They are never satisfied with one person just for no reason, always looking for their lost soul. It is dangerous engaging in pre-marital sex because it can affect your marriage in future.

- It passes demons to you

This is perhaps the most worrisome part of pre-marital sex. Demons and other problems gain entrance into your body through pre-marital sex.

1 Corinthians 6:16 “know ye not that he which is joined to a harlot is one body? For two saith He shall be one flesh. Have not heard how a serpent that was in another person was transferred to another in the course of sex. It passes demons to your generation. Any sin that becomes a habit is iniquity.

- It is a sin against your own body

Other sins are outside the body except the sin of fornication, 1Corinthians 6:18.

Fornication has the capacity of doing the flowing to you:

* You lose confidence.

* Diseases, sicknesses take over you.

* Your relationship with your family becomes unstable and lying sets in.

Pre-marital Sex Is Lust

Love is from God. It gives unconditionally and it can wait. Lust is from Satan. It is selfish and wants immediate gratification. Any man that loves you will never demand sex from you as a proof of your love for him. Love is patient, is long suffering and endures.

1John 4:7 Beloved let us love one another for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knowth God.

Many young people today have the spirit of Ammon 2^nd Samuel 13:12-14. Beware!

Other Dangers of Pre-marital Sex

* Premature parenthood

* It makes you marry the wrong person who may not be supportive, friendly or compatible.

* Rejection, abandonment

* Infertility

* It kills your vision

Everybody that was involved in pre-marital sex in the Bible suffered punishment. Genesis 34: 26-27 and they slew Hamor and Shechem his son with the edge of the sword, and took Dinah out of Shechem’s house and went out. The sons of Jacob came upon the slain, and spoiled the city, because they had defiled their sister.

2^nd Samuel 12:29 the servants of Absalom slew Ammon on the order of Absalom for raping his sister Tamah.

Avoidance/Prevention/Advice

The only way to avoid the dangers of pre-marital sex is to abstain from it. Sex education has suggested the use of condom but statistics has shown that condom has failed in stopping dangers of illicit sex. Condom cannot stop the passage of demons during sexual intercourse. Our youths have taken pre-marital sex as a normal thing and a way of life. I want to sound this note of warning that it is devils device to destroy you people. Hear what the Bible say in Proverbs 14:12 there is a way that seemeth unto a man is right but the end is death

* Disassociate yourself from immoral/ungodly peer group.

* Try not to be idle.

* Beware of the type of film you watch.

* Make the Bible your closest companion and pray always.

* Take a personal decision to start living a life of purity and God will back you up.

* Mind what you drink – refrain from alcohol.

  

Olejeme praises Uduaghan

The Chairman, Nigeria Social Insurance Trust Fund, Dr. Ngozi Olejeme has praised the Delta State Governor, Dr. Emmanuel Uduaghan for setting high standards in sports, security and management of public finances, promising to continue where the governor will stop in 2015.

“I must thank His Excellency, Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan for a job well. I will bring my wealth of experience to bear in the administration and development of Delta State. I will also take Delta State to the next level” she promised.

Olejeme, who spoke in Asaba during a courtesy visit on a member of the Delta State House of Assembly, Hon. Pat Ajudua, described herself as a sellable candidate that will give the People’s Democratic Party (PDP) victory in the 2015 governorship election in the State.

Olejeme who also spoke on the moribund nature of the National Social Insurance Trust Fund in 2009, the number of workers then and social security issues in Nigeria, said NSITF would employ 6000 Nigerians before the end of 2014. 

Praising God and the management team for the progress so far made, Olejeme said the organization under her leadership transited from its moribund nature to a desired state.

“Today, NSITF is having almost 6500 staff with offices in different parts of Nigeria”.

She said the agency would continue to provide social security protection and safety nets for all Nigerians against deprivations and income insecurity.

Continuing on the achievements of NSITF, Olejeme said “The Fund has commenced the process of putting in place the necessary infrastructure to implement Social Security Benefit to the aged, unemployed, child welfare and the physically challenged. NSITF has also commenced putting in place the necessary infrastructure to ensure the collection of data of all the categories of those entitled to Social Security Benefit”.

“A bill for an amendment to the provisions of the NSITF Act to provide basic social security services to all Nigerians is before the National Assembly for passage into law” she disclosed .

She commended Princess Ajudia for her courage.

Earlier, Princess Ajudua praised Olejeme for joining the governorship race.

“I really appreciate your effort. May the will of God be done” she said.  

Ebola Outbreak: The Role of Politicians

Ebola Outbreak: The Role of Politicians

It is now a known fact that Ebola is one of the deadliest diseases known to mankind. Like HIV, it is a virus; however it kills within a shorter time, compared to the former. Ebola has been proved to spread through fluids such as sweat, saliva and blood from a human being or animal that is infected with the virus. This deadly virus is spreading and rapidly making a mark on the West African map. So far, over 1000 lives have been lost to this dreaded ailment. This is a great concern as our day to day lives revolve around physical contact with people around us.

Prince Tonye Princewill is calling on all his supporters and all Nigerians not to panic or act out of fear, but carry out their various activities with wisdom. He has therefore advised all to take the following practical precautions:

1. Keep your environment clean and rodent free.
2. Stay away from raw meat of fruit bats, bush rats, chimpanzees and gorillas; as these particular animals have been found to spread the virus. If contact has to be made, proper protective clothing should be put on and if meat has to be consumed, it should be properly cooked before consumption.
3. Citizens are advised to keep clear from infected persons and if anyone has the symptoms, medical personnel need to be alerted by calling the approved help lines (see below)
4. Minimize human bodily contact (especially in areas with confirmed Ebola infection cases) and wash hands thoroughly with soap and water before handling any food. NAFDAC approved hand sanitizers are welcome.
5. Families that have lost a loved one to the disease should stay away from the dead body. The advised burial method is cremation.
6. Citizens should educate their immediate environment on causes and symptoms of Ebola. Likewise he wants to appeal to active politicians to use the political tempo to educate the constituents in their jurisdiction, on the dreaded virus; “Politics needs to work for the people, especially at times like this”.

Due to the rapid display of its symptoms, the Ebola virus can be quickly identified in an area. According to WHO, Ebola symptoms include, a sudden onset of fever, intense weakness, muscle pain, headache and sore throat. This is followed by vomiting, diarrhea, rash, impaired kidney and liver function, and in some cases, both internal and external bleeding. Some of the symptoms are similar to those experienced when suffering from malaria, typhoid fever, shigellosis, cholera, leptospirosis, plague, rickettsiosis, relapsing fever, meningitis, hepatitis and other viral hemorrhagic fevers.

Prince Tonye has advised all citizens not to panic, be sensitive to your environment and report any suspected case to your nearest medical center. The Rivers State Emergency help line “112” (toll free), which was initiated years ago by Prince Tonye Princewill is still very functional and available to attend to such cases. Kindly call the number to report suspected cases or any other emergency. The Rivers State ministry of Health has also setup a committee to investigate and  tackle any unlikely case;  simply call, 08167733939, 07036321076 and 08032652437  to speak with the state medical agents.

Thank you

And God Bless

  

Wabiye Idoniboyeobu

Personal Assistant – Media and Publicity